Bad relationship during dating and courtship can result to shattered families. as many people tend to put up with their partners bad behaviour thinking that its either cute or believes that they will change when they marry.
Bad behaviour, poor choices and lifestyle habits in a relationship should not be tolerated and if these habits are ignored they can lead to a lifestyle full of misery ending in an unhealthy relationship, instead of thriving as God intended.
We need to recognise that Relationships in dating and courtship stages can be beautiful only if they are nurtured and enjoyed. However, it is at this point that you should watch out for some very important fundamentals. Relationships have the potential to give individuals great joy and sometimes greatest pain, you have the power to make the best decisions concerning your life partner to avoid the potential pitfalls.
It is important to acknowledge whether a relationship is worth working on and recognising signs of an unhealthy relationship and making the right choices. The ndicators of an unhealthy relationship may go unnoticed; the assumption is they are normal, cultural, traditional or simply a family pattern. Unhealthy relationships are toxic; they cause physiological and psychological challenges.
These relationships can cause so much strain causing a volcano of emotional stress, damaging one’s self esteem and eventually threatens their total well-being that affects their performance in every area of life. It is therefore important to tell the signs of an unhealthy relationship and do something before it takes toil on you and your partner.
Since relationships begin with self-acceptance, you need to seek it. Check out “who am I” walk through the stages of affirming yourself and seek ways to find good in yourself before others can find good in you.
Emotional or physical abuse should not be tolerated in the onset of a relationship.If you constantly feel disrespected and devalued in your relationship, take action. Do not generalise your circumstances, that all relationships endure the same.
You should know and believe that trust is the foundation of any relationship and the glue that holds it together. When trust is broken in courtship, it is important to have a reality check. Measure the level of broken trust and be real. Is it worth working on?
If a relationship infuses more of negative energy and sadness, then it is not beneficial and it is important to choose to let it go.
You should not allow depression or unhappiness take toll in your life, you deserve to leave a hppy life free from worries